Monday, October 20, 2008

Quality Time Part 2

As promised, I brought En out for some mom-daughter Quality Time (QT) this morning. I realised I couldn't help bringing her to the same places I brought Xuan last week. Guess deep inside me, the "being fair to both twin" bug just won't let me go.

However, it is a very different experience hanging out with En versus Xuan. I was more relaxed today as En is generally more cautious about the surrounding. She sticks around me and holds my hand most of the time, unlike Xuan who'll charge to wherever/whatever intrigues her. En also takes instructions better than Xuan. I had a good time engaging in "intellectual" conversations with her. :)

There are 2 things I noticed about En today:

1) She is more attached to Xuan than I thought. It was barely 3 minutes away from our home and she started turning back, asking for Xuan. And she mentioned Xuan 3-4 times during the short outing. Interestingly, she didn't think of Ya Ya. That took me by surprise though.

2) En's interest in books has extended to those beyond her age. Of course she still likes picture books or board books, but I did noticed her flipping through my books/Bible on my bedside table at times. At the reference section in the library, she took a book on Statistics off the shelf, sat on the carpeted floor and started going through the book. There were no pictures. Just words and numbers. I hope this interest continue throughout her life.

Lacking the athlete stamina (more prominent in Xuan), En knocked out earlier than expected. Before we could flag down a cab, she fell fast asleep! There was no way I could get her to rest her head on my shoulders, so my poor arm almost suffered a "fracture" from supporting the gal's head all the way home!!! Well, looks like I'll have to bring her stroller along for our next QT. Kekeke...

2 comments:

A Husband's Voice said...

It's interesting how you will learn a little more about your daughters when you spend time with them individually.

Keep it up. I'm sure before long they will look forward to spending this time of quality time with you too!

F A I T H said...

Thanks, Dylan!

I've been spending a great deal of time with them lately and I enjoyed every minute of it.

Strangely, they seemed to develop quite a fair bit over these few weeks, particularly their speech. En is begining to put 2 words together and more and more come out of her each day. Xuan also surprises us with lots of new words everyday. I guess I'll have to put these into a new post soon :)